Flows in the Framework
Level Progression
Level-by-Level
The channels in the Tree can be combined to reveal an upward flow that corresponds to the progress in cultivating a relationship.
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Individualizing your presence commences at with clarity about your views and interests as these are your means of connecting. This encourages proffering disclosures at so as to control a connection, which can be deepened by your intentions at . These efforts culminate in assessing fit at , which opens the door to feeling comfortable in the relationship.
Once a compatible social relationship is available, it must become a source of strength and release energies not previously available. The first step in harnessing those energies is to claim the relationship at if you do indeed belong. The next step is to sustain participation at so as to settle yourself in a new identity created via the relationship, because this is where comfort is controlled. Finally, the relationship evolves through conflicts and their resolution at .
Bypassing a Level
In the Tree, it is evident that levels can be bypassed.
From , there is an investment in the relationship that shows in a willing prioritization and a redirection to respond to an offered engagement.
From , there is a permission to take the relationship seriously.
From , there is a qualification of the relationship in terms of a necessary limitation and the desired affirmation.
From , there is a fulfilment of the relationship based on its endorsement and its sustenance.
From , there is no direct influence.
Investment Permission Qualification Fulfilment
The Three Columns
The Tree has three vertical columns that appear to have distinct functions in any social relationship.
The central spine is where personal and social control are fused, and so it carries the mutuality that maintains a possible relationship.
Remodelling Permission Encouragement
The right-side periphery contains the dominant centres and these provide the bounds needed to maintain a possible relationship.
Definition Regulation Limitation Prioritization
The left-side periphery contains the subordinate centres and these provide the allowances needed to maintain a possible relationship.
Counteraction Reassurance Affirmation Redirection
Originally posted: 31-Oct-2026