Development v Accommodation
Approach
Willingness is relevant to every endeavour and is the same in every case. However, the various levels of willingness, that is to say the fundamental ways that willingness manifests, feel and look so different. And while hierarchy has been argued, stratification was not immediately obvious.
So it is no wonder that conventional researchers have never lumped willingness forms together, much less ordered them.
Having identified 7 levels, we now need to dichotomize these in a distinctive way. THEE principles indicate that there should be a sharp polarizing distinction between odd-numbered and even-numbered levels. This ubiquitous polarity is called the oscillating duality.
Sometimes this duality is obvious, but that was not the case here. In determining the oscillation, I looked closely at:
a) how activation of the element is determined
and
b) what impact the element has on oneself and others.
See Background Notes below.
With that guidance, a picture emerged that was more complex than in other primary hierarchies, although perhaps the present findings suggest that those should be revisited.
Findings
The oscillation is between:
Personal Development in the odd-numbered levels
and
Social Accommodation in the even-numbered levels.
In short:
is individualistic, about self-starting and supports self-development.
is social and enables finding one's place amongst others.
is a personal and subjective matter and fosters self-development.
involves accepting the nature and culture of a particular group.
is a matter of personal daring and intrinsic to the adventures of life.
involves a receptivity, dependency and adapting to others who know more.
involves and openness that can enable personal growth and development.
Elaboration
While these labels confirm the oscillation, they could be challenged. To clarify the situation, it is possible to look in more detail at the following:
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What is the effect on the self?
ODD: Personal development leads to becoming & self-expansion
EVEN: Social accommodation leads to belonging & self-consolidation -
What mental processes are involved?
ODD: Personal development is subjective & imaginative
EVEN: Social accommodation is rational & objective -
What is the social vector?
ODD: Personal development is attractive & unifies others
EVEN: Social accommodation is divisive & accepts others -
How are boundaries with others managed?
ODD: Personal development transcends boundaries
EVEN: Social accommodation respects boundaries
Personal Development: The odd-numbered levels see the individual as unique. Whether it is , , or , a person is essentially alone in the moment of choice, and about to expand their self on the basis of internal work that is necessarily subjective and uses the imagination. This is a state of becoming that attracts others and can unify, even if the outcome is never predictable. Here boundaries are transcended to create a shared spirit and personal growth.
Social Accommodation: The even-numbered levels reveal the individual as necessarily choosing in a rational objective way to engage with an existing system. Whether it is , or , the result is a consolidation of the self within a recognizable group and a specifically valued framework. This calls for belonging via associations that divide people, while accepting that others also need to associate. Here boundaries are respected because they provide for order and progress.
Summary Table:
| L# | Level of Willingness |
Oscillation Label |
Effect on Self |
Mental Process | Social Vector | Boundaries |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | Trust |
Personal development | Self-expansion Becoming |
Imaginative Subjective |
Unifying Attractive |
Transcended |
| 6 | Learn |
Social accommodation | Self-consolidation Belonging |
Rational Objective |
Divisive Accepting |
Respected |
| 5 | Risk | Personal development | Self-expansion Becoming |
Imaginative Subjective |
Unifying Attractive |
Transcended |
| 4 | Participate |
Social accommodation | Self-consolidation Belonging |
Rational Objective |
Divisive Accepting |
Respected |
| 3 | Face |
Personal development | Self-expansion Becoming |
Imaginative Subjective |
Unifying Attractive |
Transcended |
| 2 | Believe |
Social accommodation | Self-consolidation Belonging |
Rational Objective |
Divisive Accepting |
Respected |
| 1 | Try | Personal development | Self-expansion Becoming |
Imaginative Subjective |
Unifying Attractive |
Transcended |
Unwillingness: Willingness is evidently about expanding one's potential for achievement (becoming) while consolidating and stabilizing that potential within a social framework (belonging). The earlier analysis of unwillingness can be interpreted as failures of these two poles. Failure in an odd level leads to a hollowing out of "the personal"—a weakening of becoming. Failure in an even level leads to a hollowing out of "the social"—a weakening of belonging.
Below are the summaries of the elements of willingness that I constructed to enable this investigation.
is subjectively and imaginatively determined because whether an activity is straightforward and within your abilities or too difficult, too complicated or too outside your experience cannot be formally assessed.
Trying is individualistic and about self-starting and often self-development. However, it typically occurs with a sense of others who have tried in the past, are currently trying or plan to try in the future. Each can easily feel for others, even if they are competitors. As soon as one person tries, that encourages and attracts others to try, whether or not there is success.
is objectively and rationally determined because there are usually alternative perspectives with differing implications for personal, social or work life. The development of erroneous beliefs can be damaging to oneself and harmful for others. Indoctrinated beliefs become forms of , as well as expressions of .)
Believing is social and about finding one's place amongst others and usually belonging to a group. This reveals it to be divisive. There will be many who disagree, believe something quite different and belong to another group. While each accepts that others have their own beliefs, the tendency is to associate only with one's own.
a relevant reality is subjectively and imaginatively determined, because outsiders typically regard the reality being resisted or denied as obvious, even if disturbing.
Seeing a previously denied reality is an individual matter and often leads to important self-development. Articulating the reality can act like a universal solvent and social magnet. When a person shares how he faced up to his own reality, that encourages and attracts others. In groups, when an avoided truth is finally acknowledged, everyone is relieved and people associate around this honest shareable perception.
must be handled objectively and rationally because it needs to follow determination of personal interests and resources, as well as an assessment of the significance and quality of the group involved. Joining the wrong group can generate difficulties all round.
The necessary choice of one particular group rather than another makes participating intrinsically divisive. However, anyone who participates in a group accepts the presence of other groups, some of which may be needed to provide support or facilities. Participation is about cooperation within the group's framework in order to securely belong.
is subjectively and imaginatively determined because it is about daring to embark on a hazardous venture for gain despite an undoubted chance of a tangible loss. Usually the greater the potential gain, the greater the potential loss.
Risking is a universal integrating requirement for all to thrive and grow. It is part of self-development, with each winning or losing in their own way via different challenges, and learning along the way. Any daring inspires a following, and others then may embark on the same risky venture with you or alongside. While they associate, they can also pull out independently.
must be determined objectively and rationally because it is about remedying a specific capability deficit and involves dependency and vulnerability. Suitable methods and teachers must be found, knowing that poor choices can lead to expense and effort for little gain or may even result in harmful guidance.
Learning is associative in that people commonly learn together and often form close friendships. In learning, everyone has to fit in to the frameworks provided. Learning is also divisive in that while all work towards passing the same assessments to gain the same qualifications, they do so as individuals and end up being stratified.
must be subjectively and imaginatively determined because it is an existential leap into the unknown. The correctness of any engagement cannot be proven.
A person is alone and vulnerable at the moment of opening up, but assuming all will be well. Trusting in new situations provides the potential for personal growth and development. The result of trusting is to foster a positive relation and an ongoing union with the other. One person's trust can encourage and inspire others, so the process is associative.
Combined with the development of properties earlier, this finding of a powerful oscillating pattern confirms the earlier checks that identified the within THEE.
Now consider:
- Willingness under necessity or coercion.
- Pathological forms of willingness.
Originally posted: 3-Jun-2026.