To deal with difficulties and cope with whatever life throws at us without ignoring or sacrificing goodness, we must . That means handling situations of all sorts, but especially adversity—and without allowing egocentric urges to intrude excessively or inappropriately.
In the face of adversity, good. But how can I deal with my ego and its over-valuation of my own wishes, emotions and biases? How do I stop myself finding a way around what is most pertinent, denying the necessity for goodness, or giving in to my impulses under pressure? The mature response is (or or ).is required to create something that I can see is
Q: How do you find
A: You simply create goodness combined with the creative quality inherent in communication. Keep telling yourself what you must do, over and over again, using simple and well-known . using the
goodness. This generates 6 Dyads, called here: the . Their function is to stabilize goodness in the face of egocentric temptations within daily life.is obtainable by using a combination of
The result of taking heed of these goodness to manifest.is to stabilize yourself in your social setting, to enable your choices to be free of inappropriate egotism, and to allow
Using Dyads, you can in 6 distinct spheres of by using the upper goodness conscientiously while recognizing that the lower is necessary.demands conscientiousness. In these
Therequiring conscientious use are:
Q: Don't you need to have
A: Not beyond what is naturally available to you. You do need the will for goodness and then you must use the two conscientiously in order to repeat and realize the . Taken seriously, that provides you with the additional you seek, and you can move forward. Surprised? Doubtful? A full explanation is provided below and in the topics to follow.
All the reverse order in the Dyads).are challenging in their own way. They can be classified in pairs going downwards as transpersonal (or impersonal), interpersonal and intrapersonal (cf. similar classification in
|Transpersonal||Dyads:is required in the upper 2|
is about being in accord with aspects of reality that contravene your wishes and expectations.|
is about sustaining a commitment regardless of emerging realities and an unknowable future.
|Interpersonal||Dyads:is required in the middle 2|
is about intervening and altering the conditions of another so a need is met.|
is about helpfully sharing the description of realities relevant for others.
|Intrapersonal||Dyads:is required in the lower 2|
is about getting a fix on realities in a particular area of concern to you.|
is about getting enjoyment from work or other endeavours that you choose.
■ have faith in God's providence.
■ becomes say not the struggle naught availeth.
■ becomes show loving selfless devotion.
■ becomes talk openly with God.
■ becomes attend to scriptural revelations.
■ becomes do God's work.
But that is not required and not part of this framework.
are short communications to yourself that can lead to personal transformation, in this case enabling you to . Each is also associated with a distinctive style of social communication.
This topic introduces each Groupings in regard to the triggers generating the need for (ego v events) and the temporal orientation (present v future).with some common alternative wordings and proposes a distinctive function. There is an oscillation in the
For each, there is a detailed examination of the internal structure, the egotistic temptations, the effects of a deficit on self and others, the qualities of pain and fear, and the result of excess.
Framework of THEE, not yet identified.)appears to operate in a set of distinct Spheres that define our . These Spheres, 6 in number, naturally correspond to the 6 ways that the self must be controlled. (The Spheres probably belong within another
► Start with how mantras function.
Originally posted: 13-Apr-2013